Lots of fears. Let’s face it. Lots of things are changing. My child is getting married and as happy as I am, I am also fearful. I know its silly but I can’t help feeling how I feel. And its not about me so I feel guilty for making it about me. Come to find out, I’m not the only one. Many women feel like this. And why wouldn’t we? Our babies are getting married. {flashing back 20 years}.

Separation

Mothers may fear separation and loss, especially if they have a close relationship with their child. From knowing their every move to hoping that they will call, it is a total adjustment. For both of you. Feelings of depression or deflation are common.

Try and maintain contact and keeping the lines of communication open with your child. Make sure you plan a time that is best for both. And be sure to give the newlyweds some space.

Letting Go

Mothers may have fears of letting go. Mothers may have difficulty with the change and may hold on too tightly to their child. Change is difficult. Change can be stressful. But remember, change can bring great things. It is your child’s journey and trust the process.

Isolation

Mothers may feel isolated. You’ve always made the plans. Now you have to ask what day. Stepping down to allow your child to step up is a natural process. And there are more people in your child’s life to consider. Be understanding and kind. Know that you are loved. Fill your child’s void with good friends, clubs, or hobbies. Find things that you love to do. You have a whole new life to live. Enjoy it.

We hope your adjustment to a new life of being a mother-in-law is filled with love.

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